Rules of deceit and deception
By Serge Kreutz
While in some fields (business, politics, or the professions, and especially in writing), honesty is or may be the best approach, the area of human sexual relationships is so complicated and messed up that keeping to honesty will either shortchange you, or stir up a lot of unfavorable emotions among the women with whom you have or attempt sexual relationships.
Of course I am totally against breaking the law. I believe there are no clever criminals. It is much smarter to get what you need without breaking the law. Those who see no other way to get what they need but to break the law, haven't done their homework.
However, if you want to have the best of sexual relationships, and the most, then you won't get very far if you are not willing to apply techniques of deceit and deception. Try approaching a young woman, telling her what may be on your mind: “Hey, Iâ€˜d like to screw you a few times, and if the chance presents itself, I'd screw your best friend as well. Later this afternoon, I have time, but only until 7, because at 8, I already have an appointment with another girl.”
You won't get anywhere with this kind of honesty.
Now, try the following line: “Wow, I think you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. This is the first time I have falling in love at the first sight. Sorry, I am confusing you, but looking at you has totally confused my mind. I hope you aren't married or something like that. That would break my heart.”
This second approach won't necessarily work with every girl or woman. But the first one never will.
Now, talk to your male buddy. He will perfectly understand you when you tell him about option one. He won't take you serious on option two.
Not every woman will take you serious on option two either. But unlike your buddy, most women like to hear that kind of bullshit.
By and large, the techniques of deceit and deception for building sexual relationships are the same as the techniques applied in hypnosis. When the hypnotist tells his patient / victim that he shall imagine himself on a sunny island of the Pacific, where all his dreams come true, and where all his problems are solved, that's also bullshit. But it's what the patient / victim wants to hear. At least unconsciously, he wants to hear this.
Suggestions for paradisiacal imaginations lull people into a state of mind no longer controlled by their own reason but the hypnotist. It's the same, albeit on a lower scale, with telling a girl or woman how beautiful she is, and that you will love her until the end of your days.
You don't have to hypnotize a woman you want to use. That would be too dangerous. It would be illegal and put you in jeopardy of prosecution. But there is also no need to hypnotize a girl or women to get what you want. It is much safer you keep her conscious and manipulate her nevertheless. You cannot be blamed for what happens because it will appear to have happened on her own will.
You will be surprised when you learn how susceptible women, and especially girls, are for dreams which are so standard that they are best classified as clichÃ©s.
Even a fat and ugly girl likes to hear that she is sooo beautiful and sooo sexy. Tell an average looking girl that she has the potential to be a movie star or a photo model, or at least a stewardess on intercontinental flights. She may tell you, consciously, that all of this is impossible, that it will ever happen; that you are just talking honey. But unconsciously, she will blossom in the imaginations you incite in her.
OK, when girls become women, they usually become better in differentiating what are realistic perspectives, and what are not.
However, if you are a Caucasian men hunting in Asia, you are an option that doesn’t have to become unrealistic as girls become women. More precisely: in most Asian countries, the career perspective of being the housewife of a Western man is probably as good as the career perspective of becoming a singer or movie star.
Actually, the career perspective of becoming the housewife of an American or European husband combines two dreams of average young women most anywhere in the world, the one of glamour and the one of lifelong love. And the perspective of becoming the housewife of a Western man doesn't have to fade for women until they are beyond 30. In Asia, many just-average girls and many women who are already beyond 30 succeed in landing a foreign husband. That's what Asian girls and women see many times when they walk the streets (usually only of large cities), and that's what they read about in celebrity magazines.
Combine this insight with the first rule of deceit and deception: give signals to an Asian girl or woman that you are on the market for lifelong love. If you can create this impression realistically, you can be beyond 50, and look it, and still successfully compete with any local, young or old, rich or poor, and with any other foreign man who is half your age, but gives the impression that he is just out looking for a clean fuck.
No, I don’t want to tell you to find a wife in Asia. I want to tell you how to achieve an optimum number of consenting lays with non-prostitutes in Asia. You can go along charming, and creating impressions that help you with your goals (sexual intercourse), but you have to stop short from becoming somebody's legal husband. Anyway, it is your legal right to change your mind, even on the stairs of the chapel.
To summarize it: rule one is to let girls and women hear what they, consciously or not, want to hear, and not to tell them what you really think.
Rule two is that you eliminate social control by aiming for as much privacy as possible. You can't tell a girl that she has the potential to become a movie star or a photo model in front of her parents. Her parents won't fall for it. They will smell your tactics, and they will perceive you as trouble.
It’s best to sort-of hypnotize a girl or young woman under four eyes. Even her friends, when they hear your lines, may be inclined to bring her back to reason. And that would be very counterproductive for your game of seduction.
Chapter one of your game of deceit and deception ends with her genuinely loving you. Actually, it's not you she loves. It’s her hopes and dreams that she loves. And you have become a very essential part of these hopes and dreams. So much so that her hopes and dreams depend on you. If you are out of the picture, all her dreams will be shattered.
Chapter two of your game of deceit and deception begins when you start implementing your ideas, not in her dream world, but in reality. You tell her that yes, you want to marry her, but you will first have to go and get permission from your mama (or your government). This will still take time. But at the present, you always suffer such terrible headaches because of sexual urges. Yes, of course, you want to be faithful to her until the end of your days. But if she is not willing to give you what you need, sorry, you will have to find another girl. How can she be so gruesome to you and not let you. Because you only need it a little bit. Not serious yet. Only a little bit.
Be assured that you can talk her into it. If it is under four eyes. You have to avoid witnesses, not because you would do something illegal but because they would maybe bring her back to her senses.
If you have taken her virginity (assuming that she was a virgin), she will be yours for further manipulation. Under the strangest pretexts, you can come up with the most outlandish of demands.
If you are skillful you will even be able to convince her that the best way to further deepen and strengthen your love for her, is to bring another girl for threesome fun. You can give this a metaphysical, religious dimension, and she will get deeper and deeper entangled. Religious sects (scientologists and others) play this game, and so can you.
There will be no sexual acts she will refuse, just for you, or, in reality, just to uphold the romantic perspective that you have implanted in her initially. Obviously, she will also be obedient in other aspects of life. If she is rich, she will give you access to economic means, though you have to be aware of the fact that rich girls are under more social control by their parents.
It is truly amazing to what extend girls and women can be controlled without the necessity to formally hypnotize them. However, the stranger your plans for her, the more important it is to stick to rule three of deceit and deception.
Rule three is to go step by step. You cannot manipulate a woman who is newly in love with you to perform anilingus on you, if you confront her with the request before you have exchanged conventional kisses. To get what you want, you have to play a game of two step forward, one step back.
Before confronting her with new requests that would normally be declined, be extra nice and romantic for a week or so. Then give the impression of withdrawing mentally. Don't smile. Look sad. She will ask you what is wrong with you. Tell her that it is because of her. Because she doesn't want to do this or that. That's why the whole perspective of your life together has become bleak. Be assured that she will cooperate.
The point is to go step by step. Don't present her with bites that are too large to swallow. She will agree to anything if you apply the right tactics. Never threaten or physically abuse her for not agreeing to something. Just play with the idea that you may withdraw from her if she doesn't agree.
These techniques of manipulating girls and women of course are not new. Con artists have used them form centuries, and some pimps apply them to get their “girlfriends” to work as prostitutes (and bring the money home).